Thursday, February 3, 2011

Black and White, with Shades of Gray...

Abortion. Perhaps the most controversial and provocative word presently in the English language. The current discourse would have you think it’s a black and white issue: you’re either for it or against it. Left or right, right or wrong.

Unfortunately this is exactly the type of dialogue that has led to the ideological stalemate in which we currently find ourselves. Until now it was easy for someone who considers themselves to be a shade of gray in this debate to ignore the static and focus on more pressing issues. It is no longer static, however, since House Republicans introduced a bill this week in order to limit the use of federal funds to pay for abortions for rape victims that essentially re-defines rape. According to these refreshingly sensitive experts we call Congressmen “rape is only rape if it involves force.”

Now wait a minute. Rape is characterized by lack of consent, meaning one person says “no” to another person’s sexual advances; or is not in a mental state that enables them to give consent; or is not of the consenting age. Therefore, ALL rape involves force, regardless of whether or not broken bones and/or bruises are present in the aftermath.

While the intent of the bill, as stated, is to further limit the use of federal funds to pay for abortions to exclude cases of rape without “force,” its implications are potentially far greater. Rape is already one of the most difficult crimes to prosecute, but what if a federal law is enacted that, in effect, creates two very hazy definitions of rape? (Congressmen Chris Smith-R-N.J., who introduced the bill, and his other 172 mostly Republican co-sponsors have offered no clear definition of “forcible rape”) How exactly is a judge supposed to punish a perpetrator of this heinous crime when there exists a federal law that further complicates precisely what it is that constitutes rape? If a rape victim can’t use federal funds to pay for an abortion if the rape wasn’t ‘forcible,’ then is that rape less traumatizing, and thus warrants less jail time for the offender? Is this really the way we want to treat victims of an extremely painful, harrowing crime-telling them their rape wasn’t ‘forcible?’

And let’s not forget-these women are victims. Having thankfully not been a victim of rape myself, I cannot even begin to imagine what they are going through. As a result, I would never try and tell an impregnated rape victim what she should do with her precarious situation. It’s easy for me to say that I could never get an abortion because I think it’s wrong-I’ve never been faced with such horrible circumstances. I doubt it’s as easy for a rape victim to say the same thing. So like I said, I would never try to tell them what is best for their healing, nor would I support a law that limits their ability to decide for themselves.

A rape victim’s decision is between her and her god, not me, and sure as hell not Congress.

Besides, doesn’t Christianity teach that only God can judge His people? I’m not condoning abortion here, all I’m saying is that in these situations people should think really carefully before they judge a really sensitive issue.

But that’s just what I think.




*This entry was written on 2/2/11 and the next morning the "forcible rape" language was removed from the bill. I decided to still post it, however, because I think the overall issues I raise in this post are still relevant (and are likely to be for awhile).

9 comments:

  1. I agree. Rape is rape. I feel that "forcible rape" is one more initiative for victim blaming. The girl shouldn't have gotten drunk at that party, she shouldn't have worn that outfit if she didn't want any, etc. Why does a woman always have to be on guard? Never be able to go wild if she wants or wear whatever makes her happy. Are we to be held accountable for our naivety? Is it our responsibility to take care of other's troubled prerogatives?
    Say I leave a bike in front of my house. During the night someone takes it. Who's fault is it? Not mine. It is my possession, not theirs, and they had no right to take it. Stealing is stealing no matter how it is done. The same is true of rape or any other crime.
    Further more on the issue of abortion. While most women have the right of choice, that being to not have sex and therefore not have a child, these women's right was taken from them. It should be a decision, that right DECISION, as to whether they wish to carry the baby brought from such a traumatic experience. There is no debate that what is going to be born is a human baby, but the question is: is this one life with the agony the mother may face? And that is a question none but her can answer.

    -Sam

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  2. shoot. "is this one life" worth...

    and that's "right a DECISION"

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  3. Thanks for the insight, Sam :) I'm glad someone read this!

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  4. Interesting notion to say the least. This is not an area of my knowledge but I will -- attempt a sufficient response.
    If rape is characterized by "forcible entry" then all rape is rape. This is true. But what actually characterizes rape is whether or not the sexual advances on the victim is done with or without consent. Now I agree with this reiteration. But I think the act of consent is the grayest portion of the idea. When a women says no and then is unwilling mated with, then it is rape. But there are instances where "no" is eventually a "yes". The woman then willingly takes off her close. Even though she said she couldn't and proceeds by having drunken unprotected sex. Some women may claim that due to their incoherence they meant no or weren't able to say no which should classify it a rape. But I just can't agree with that. You always know. I think the idea behind the bill is to minimize women attempting to take advantage of the aide. Usually (as far as I know) forced rape, no matter the way its done can typically leave marks. Whether that be tearing of tissue, bruises, scratches, etc. And even so on the rapist; marks can be found showing a sense of struggle. Making the rape a (even mildly) violent crime. THIS I think is what they meant when they used the term forced. The violence connected to the rape. But what does the bill say about Statutory rape? There are many cases when couples who just happen to be a few years apart but are "madly in love" "accidentally" conceive a child and the parents file statutory rape charges against the alleged rapist. Because they don't want their daughter or son to have a child, or maybe the impregnated minor doesn't want the child. By definition this is rape. But by your's (in this case) it is not. There is no force.The two individuals willingly mated.But it is still rape? Is there such a thing as consented rape? So then should the aide cover this "victim" because our educational system lacks proper sex education programs? And the ambiguity or rather, vagueness that is behind statutory rape victims... I dunno...I think the bill is an attempt at erase a lot of the grayness you see.
    Or maybe I don't know what I am talking about.
    In the meantime, keep this blog updated. Any chance I can get an update to my phone?

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  5. NVM. I figured it out. It will be on my phone now!

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  6. It's funny you say that Tony because the next post I'm working on now is about Teen Mom and MTV so it's kind of along the same lines as your last thought.

    I definitely agree that there is abuse of the system by parents of minors though and that education is the only way to make progress with the issue. My high school didn't even have sex ed and I know for a fact we had a few pregnancies while I was there so clearly some things have to change. I'll talk about that more in the next post though.

    I'm glad you like it! :)

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  7. A few weeks left in black history month.. Shall you tackle that at all?

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  8. I hadn't thought about it but I was just thinking about one of my favorite RFK quotes earlier today-"If any man claims the Negro should be content... let him say he would willingly change the color of his skin and go to live in the Negro section of a large city. Then and only then has he a right to such a claim."-so maybe I will after the next one.

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  9. ideas? http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/02/08/obama-high-speed-rail-proposal_n_820248.html

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